feat(mvp): Phase 1 control layer + API vertical slice

Implements the Phase 1 MVP from the README: a stateless control layer + HTTP
API over a centralized database, with hook-enforced test/push gates.

- DB layer: SQLAlchemy Core, one schema rendering both Postgres (BIGSERIAL /
  TIMESTAMPTZ / JSONB) and SQLite (INTEGER PK / TEXT / JSON) via portable types;
  native ON CONFLICT DO UPDATE checkmark upsert on both dialects.
- Alembic dual-dialect migrations (render_as_batch for SQLite); tests run a real
  `alembic upgrade head`.
- FastAPI: projects/agents/checkmark/log/answer/resume + shared log/context
  routes, single global bearer token, higher-trust token gating shared-context
  writes, project isolation on every route.
- Hooks (`python -m handler.hooks <event>`): Stop test gate (block on red),
  PreToolUse AskUserQuestion defer + `git push` gate (tests then throwaway
  build), Notification generic webhook (no-op without WEBHOOK_URL). Identity via
  env injected at spawn; verify is the mock seam.
- Control CLI: spawn/list/attach/kill, hard `.mise.toml [tasks.test]` gate,
  generated per-agent settings.json, identity + DATABASE_URL injected via tmux;
  tmux is the mock seam.
- 45 tests (SQLite), ruff clean. Live claude/tmux/mise spawning deferred behind
  the mocked seams.

Co-Authored-By: Claude Opus 4.8 <noreply@anthropic.com>
Claude-Session: https://claude.ai/code/session_01W5ZuS5pV1NS6eKsRZHXonY

.mise.toml

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+# Handler dogfoods its own gate: this repo defines the canonical `test` task the
+# control layer's Stop hook enforces. Any project Handler manages carries one of these.
+[tools]
+python = "3.11"
+
+[tasks.test]
+description = "Run the test suite"
+run = "pytest"
+
+[tasks.lint]
+description = "Lint the codebase"
+run = "ruff check ."
+
+[tasks.verify]
+description = "Lint then test"
+depends = ["lint", "test"]